When a Girl Says “I Hate You”
“I hate you” is one of the worst things a person can ever say. However, when it comes to dating it can actually be a sign of serious interest. Hear us out.
Context
When I girl says “I hate you” to a guy it’s all about the context in which it’s said.
Is she saying “I hate you” right after you made a joke? If so, that’s actually a good sign.
Is she saying “I hate you” with a smirk on her face? That’s a good sign.
Is she saying “I hate you” and then giving you a playful tap on the arm or poking you? That’s another good sign.
We rarely ever say the words “I hate you” and mean it. When you actually hate a person you rarely tell them. You simply just hate them.
Repetition
Reading people is all about patterns and clues that indicate behavior. If a woman is constantly saying “I hate you” when you’re making a joke or teasing her, it’s a great sign. In these instances, “I hate you” generally means the opposite. Her words are indicating one thing, but her feelings indicate another.
“I hate you” can actually mean “I love you” or “I really like you.” Again, this is why repetition and context are so important. The more you hear it when you’re teasing her, the more interest she’s showing. It can be hard to straight up reveal your feelings to someone, but this can be disguised with a joking “I hate you.”
Through Text
“I hate you” is a common text to receive from women when you’re teasing them and the “I hate you” texts can really add up in volume over time.
If the girl you’re texting actually hated you, she’d simply block your number and not respond. When she texts “I hate you” it really means, “I know you’re teasing me, I’m going to pretend I hate it but in reality I love it, so please don’t stop.”
Conclusion
“I hate you” is a terrible thing to say but rarely does a person ever mean that. Women who hate a guy simply will not communicate with them, period.
When it comes to dating, “I hate you” is often a fun, jokey way to tell a guy they like them without actually saying it.
